Some Questions Shouldn't Be Asked

I was sitting at my computer today watching youtube and eating.  My wife came into the room and asked me a question.  She asked, "What can I do to be a better wife?"  My response was "I don't even know where to start."  I advised her to deter from that line of questioning because my answers were about to get real ugly.  It seems to me that after nearly 9 years of marriage, if you have to ask what you need to do to be a better spouse, then you have a lot of work to do.  After that amount of time, the relationship should be on cruise control.  If not, it may be time to change drivers.  Or worse yet, it may be time to change vehicles and start with something new.