Helping Her to Help Me

This past Monday I went to a dealership with my girlfriend to find her a car.  We had already done the research and knew what we were looking for. She had done the credit application and listed both our names (me primary).  We were able to get her in a used 2018 vehicle based just on my info.  She's going to pay everything. It's just in my name because she has a recent repo.  Putting her in her own vehicle has already helped.  Hopefully it will continue to improve our situation because she plans to get a second job.  

She got a taste of my mean side

So the girlfriend got a taste of my mean side a couple of weeks ago.  We had a disagreement about something. I think it was work related.   She called herself getting mad and not talking to me.  Is that what you REALLY want to do?  Ok.  Let's play.  For the next few days I spoke to her only when absolutely necessary. Forget all the "morning babe. How was your night."  It was strictly business.  After a few days, we started talking as normal. She got tired of me basically ignoring her presence. So let this be a lesson. When needed, I am quite capable of being an asshole. 

New year - Same old ish

We are officially 3 weeks into 2020.  I can honestly say that the new year hasn't really brought me anything new.  It's still SSDD.